Saturday, May 12, 2018

That day we tied the knot!


Our wedding was everything we wanted it to be with just the right amount of fairy dust.  It was amazing, by our definition and will definitely go down as one of our most memorable days.

The day started at 8am for me and the ‘I Do’ Crew. We got ready and dressed at the venue which was ideal. We did not have to consider travel time from one place to another and we also got to monitor the progress of our décor suppliers as they set up.  It felt great to walk into a clean room with a view of the ocean on the morning of the wedding.  The sea breeze kept us calm amidst all the excitement.
The hair and make-up artist arrived on time to get the glitter ball rolling. She waved her make-up brush wand and suddenly we were the Kardashians, without the booty.  Many selfies were taken, before the camera crew arrived to work their magic. We posed, pouted and flaunted our dresses. We were starting to feel like real celebrities. We ate burgers just before we got dressed. Outside we could hear the laughter and chirps of the groom and groomsmen as they started their photo-shoot and attempted to look natural.
As guests started to arrive, the bridesmaids and I watched from our room. We had a bird’s eye view, so we noted all the punctual guests. A few minutes later we fitted the veil onto my head and prepared for our walk down the aisle. My veil refused to stay on my head after it was lifted off my face, even after two attempts to reset. I made a quick decision to ditch it for the rest of the day, besides for the final creative photo-shoot.  

Our creative photo-shoot was done in a forest.  The forest was enchanting and served as a gorgeous background for our photo-shoot.  The weather was beautiful; the breeze blew our hair in the right direction and the sun reflected perfectly off the camera lens. The camera crew was so ecstatic about the natural lighting we were getting through the tall trees, that even I developed an appreciation for natural lighting. We had such fun in the forest trying to maneuver in between the trees and through the gravel paths. Surprisingly, my dress only caught a few twigs and still maintained its’ original colour. The same cannot be said for my shoes.
While in the forest, we heard music in the distance. This was strange considering there were no buildings or people surrounding the forest.  We later realised that the music was playing from the Mercedes Benz that drove us to the forest but had to stop half way as its’ beautiful design did not allow it to go further on the gravel road. The driver, my uncle, decided to have a ‘boot jol’, in the forest, during our hour long photo-shoot, and invited a few other guests from our wedding.  (Boot jol: when a car boot is discreetly used as a mini bar in an unexpected area, such as a parking lot). The number of boot jols increased at the wedding. I did not see any, however many of the guests disappeared for a while after our reception and reappeared later, on the dance floor, with more moves than Mick Jagger.

Our day was mostly stress-free, mainly because Reinald and our friend, Bivash spent the day (and night) before, at the wedding venue making sure all was in order, while I attended my pre-wedding celebration. (Reinald’s pre-celebration was held a week before the wedding). My sister and her husband kept our ducks in a row, while we couldn’t and the ‘I Do’ Crew ensured that Reinald and I were always one step ahead of our game. We are grateful for our friends and family and the stars that were aligned to make our day magical!

Love
Mrs Jags

 




 


 



 






























































Wednesday, February 7, 2018

How's the wedding planning going?


Hi Blog Buddies

Things are getting real! My Invites are printed, bridal shower planning is underway and I have more lists than Santa during Christmas.  It is crunch time!
With sixty days to go, my fiancé and I are trying to reduce the amount of things we have to do during the week of our wedding. We have developed a rule: if we think about something that needs to be done and it can be done at that time, we do it! This rule has ensured that menial, but necessary tasks get done. Our DIY centerpieces are prepared and ready, our guest list is finalised (will it ever be!) and table seating layouts have begun. (If you get an invite, RSVP. First 100 guests get a cushioned seat …ok first, 200!)
My family home is currently a shambles. In the Indian culture it is part of our rituals to do home improvements sixty days before the wedding.  It is part of the cleansing process. Out with the old, in with the new!

I just made that up!
The truth is that, Indian mothers use the approaching wedding as a tool to get Indian fathers off their butts. It works! A home may not have been renovated for thirty years but once the wedding starts approaching, it is like that TV show in which they do a complete home renovation in 24 hours. I may not have a TV to watch or a bed to sleep on, but things are happening pretty fast at my house.  
I call it wedding excitement. The kind of excitement were the women get so excited that we buy seven different outfits each with a matching pair of shoes, and the men get fooled into spending their money because the women are at their happiest. My fiancé bought me an elaborate headpiece, because I said it was the prettiest from the lot. I was not looking for a headpiece; neither was I planning to wear one. However, it was shown to me while I was doing my final dress fitting. I was so mesmerized by my dress that I would have possibly said yes to anything. On that day, I realised that it is important for me to keep my emotions in check during this wedding process. However, I can cry all I want at the wedding! Let it all out…
Many people have asked how I feel.  I feel elated, on most days. On other days I think about what I would do, if my veil got caught on the aisle carpet and ripped off, off my head while I was walking down the aisle. Almost every second person I meet asks ‘how’s the wedding planning going?’  My standard answer is ‘it’s going well”. My more elaborate answer is, wedding plans and preparations are on track. My fiancé and I are finalising wedding equipment and colours. We are also scheduling final meetings with our suppliers:
·         Décor                                                                  Xclusive events                                                

·         Hair & Make-up                                                Kiss and Make-Up                          

·         Videography and Photography                      The Shank Tank                               

·         Venue                                                                 Meander Manor                             

·         Photo booth                                                      Pixel                                                     

·         Sound and Lighting                                          Disco Odessey
I have started to draw a time-line for the day of wedding. It is to ensure that all suppliers and family members are aware of the plan for the day and prepare themselves according. Time will wait for no man or wife! Things NEED to run smoothly. I have made peace with the fact that somethings are out of my control. People will be late, a few curls may come loose and my veil may fly away, however, I will still aim for perfection and the party will go on!

With love, Soon to be wife!